No.1 Follow your heart
Nothing else could be number one in a list made by me. Everything I have shared with you, from practical tips and bitchy comments to moments of mistakes and successful decisions, well, all my stories have one thing in common.
Your college life will give you many options dear freshman, from choosing major to actually sticking to it. Or maybe finding the courage to say you were wrong, and starting all over again. Your college life will give you silly dilemmas, to stay in the library to study or go play water balloon fights with the rest of your friends whose finals are over. Your college life will bring you to paths that lead to different directions, from graduating on time or moving abroad for an internship.
You college life will bring you to moments of decision. What is right and what is wrong. And you might find yourself alone in these moments of question. Maybe everyone you love, mentors and friends, people with whom you share the journey will be against you. Because they love you and they can hear logic screaming GO THAT DIRECTION.
You know the decision is yours. And you know time flies. In every dilemma I have faced in the past years there was one question torturing my mind. Logic or heart? Clear direction or inner voice? Maybe logic sounds better for all questions. But is it? If you heart is mistaken you will seem immature and reckless. Wrong. You are brave. Dear freshman, it takes courage to follow your heart. And sometimes it will fail you. And it will suck. But don’t lose faith in it. Your mind is great and please don’t get me wrong, use it and it will lead you to good stuff.
But there will be moments and decisions when it is not enough. Because there are journeys only the heart can embark on. Enjoy the journey 😉